Patience vital in sorting reunions for Korean kin
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There is a lot of sympathetic shouting going on at the call center, with volunteers bellowing down phone lines at elderly people, checking their contact details ... checking they are still alive.
Patience is paramount, as the callers struggle to work their way through tens of thousands of names, following North and South Korea’s recent decision to organize a reunion for families separated by the 1950-53 Korean War.
With logistics talks between the two rivals’ Red Cross associations due to open today, the pressure is on to draw up a list of possible South Korean participants in the event — expected to take place in early October.
Time, or more specifically the lack of it, has always been at the heart of the emotional family reunion process, which began in earnest back in 2000.
Initially it was an annual event, but strained cross-border relations have allowed only one reunion in the past five years.
For most of the South Koreans on the waiting list — many in their 80s and 90s — time is simply running out.
Of the nearly 130,000 people who have applied for a reunion spot since 1988, more than half have since died, and the mortality rate grows with every passing year.
And with just a few hundred names making the final cut for each event, only 3,668 people on the list have actually taken part in a reunion.
In the Red Cross call center in Seoul, the volunteers are still working through the first stage — contacting the more than 66,000 names on the waiting list.
The first priority is simply to check they are still alive and, if so, whether they are still willing — or indeed physically capable — to participate in a reunion if among those finally chosen.
“It’s a long, arduous task, contacting that many elderly people, one-by-one, double-checking their addresses, telephone numbers and other information,” said Red Cross official Woo Kwang-Ho.
It also kicks off an emotional roller-coaster for those who receive the calls — raising their hopes of a meeting they have longed for but which, statistically, they are very unlikely to experience.
“We find there’s a growing number of people who just don’t want to know anymore. They’re so frustrated,” said Woo.
“And then there are many who are simply now too frail to consider participating.
“The reality is that this list will be nearly empty in a decade from now,” he added.
Reunion not automatic
Being selected does not automatically mean a reunion spot. First the North Korean side will have to check whether the relatives on that side of the border are still alive and willing to take part.
And even then nothing is guaranteed, as North Korea has, in the past, canceled reunions at the last minute due to some dispute or other.
Kim Kyung-Jae, 83, has waited for more than 20 years to see the younger sister he left behind in the northeastern coastal town of Bukcheong.
The third son of an affluent family who owned several fishing boats, Kim and his brothers left their hometown in 1951 as the war closed in.
“My father told me to leave and stay in a safe place for a while. I never saw or spoke to him again,” he said.
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