Light look at Parisian women
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EMBRACE your inner snob. Wear red with pink. Eat oysters at home and go to bed before midnight on New Year’s Eve. Just some of the advice meted out by four Frenchwomen in a new book on “how to be Parisian.”
The four cover everything from bad habits and what to display on your mantelpiece to sulking and how to wear a mini-skirt.
According to model Caroline de Maigret and her co-authors, Parisian women never try to be friends with their children, work too hard on their appearance or have overly white teeth.
They love navy blue with black, bags that don’t match their clothes and wouldn’t dream of getting married in a “poufy meringue” dress, opting instead for a black or navy tuxedo.
When pregnant, Bloody Marys can be replaced by Virgin Marys, a Bloody Mary without the alcohol, “but that’s it — you’re no saint,” and high heels should only be surrendered “the day you walk into the delivery room.”
On hosting a dinner party, the objective is to make it look effortless, no matter how stressed you are, and after politics has been discussed to redirect the conversation to Parisians’ “second favorite dinner topic: sex.”
Faux pas include using corporate jargon, having a wedding photo in your living room or more than two colors in your hair.
Dismantling stereotypes
As for infidelity the golden rule is denial. “What is good for you is good for your relationship — basically you’re just being a thoughtful girlfriend,” they suggest.
In a cafe in Paris, de Maigret, looks every inch the stereotypical, chic Parisian.
But the 39-year-old, whose various jobs include being an ambassador for French fashion house Chanel, insists that the book is about dismantling stereotypes.
“How to be Parisian Wherever You Are, Love, Style and Bad Habits”, is co-authored with Anne Berest, Audrey Diwan and Sophie Mas and came about after de Maigret found herself being constantly quizzed about Parisian women on trips abroad.
“I was traveling ... and was being asked all around the world about the Parisian girl. It was the only thing people asked me about,” she said.
And while she hopes the book, just published by Doubleday in the US and Britain, is fun and shows that Parisians can send themselves up a bit, she also sees it as something of a self-help manual for the stressed out modern woman.
As someone juggling motherhood with several part-time jobs, de Maigret says time is her ultimate luxury.
“I love taking my time for lunch, dinner and Paris gives me this,” she said.
“I think there is a big pressure on women nowadays so although it’s a light book there’s still some feminism there,” she said.
She advises women to “find out who you are” and concentrate on that.
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