VERY soon, Cesar Millan will have a new television show, a book, a tour, a documentary, and - if she says yes - a fiancee.

The year is ending on a high note for Millan as he ends his reign as TV's "Dog Whisperer" and bounces back from a suicide attempt in May 2010 that left him unconscious and hospitalized.

In "Cesar Millan: The Real Story," he talks publicly for the first time about the overdose that almost took his life. The documentary, which aired in late November on Nat Geo Wild, also launched his global speaking tour.

"It's rare when someone with his level of celebrity is willing to completely open up and share the struggle and hardship it took to find success and happiness," said Geoff Daniels, executive vice president and general manager of Nat Geo Wild. "Cesar doesn't hold anything back, and I'm certain our audience will feel even closer to him for it."

The 43-year-old Mexican-born dog handler rose to fame in 2004, when his first TV series, "The Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan," became National Geographic's top-rated show. Millan grew up in Culiacan, the largest city in the Mexican state of Sinaloa, and worked on his grandfather's farm in the hopes of becoming the best dog trainer in the world.

At age 21, alone and unable to speak English, he crossed the border and lived on the streets for two months before getting a job as a groomer and walker. Jada Pinkett (pre-Will Smith) hired him and got him an English tutor when she learned he wanted to be on TV.

As his popularity grew, his professional and personal lives appeared rosy: he became an author, made appearances in movies and on television, and his wife gave birth to two sons. In 2010 though, things took a tumble: his go-to pit bull, Daddy, died in February; a month later, he learned his wife of 16 years planned to divorce him; in May, he attempted suicide.

"I felt defeated, a big sense of guilt and failure. ... I was at the lowest level I had ever been emotionally and psychologically," he wrote in June on his website without mentioning his overdose.

He rejected antidepressants, choosing instead to get a grip through his pack dog wisdom and use exercise, discipline and affection to heal.

Another pit bull trained by Daddy has taken over Daddy's duties, though Junior will never take his place.

"Daddy was my Tibet, my Himalaya, my Gouda, my Buddha, my source of calmness," Millan said.

A new love in his life also helped, one whom Millan calls "the one." Jahira Dar lives with Millan and his youngest son in Los Angeles, and Millan said he planned to propose soon.

"It's a surprise," he joked, "I am a traditional guy, so I like to do the whole parent thing. I know they are going to say yes, but I like the whole Cinderella story."

Besides meeting Dar, constant work also helped him turn it around, said Millan, who described himself as a punctual workaholic who delegates chores and seldom cracks a smile.

He runs a rehab complex, the Dog Psychology Center, at a ranch in Santa Clarita, a magazine and a philanthropic foundation, and sells his own line of dog products and instructional CDs and DVDs.

His seventh book, "A Short Guide to a Happy Dog," is due out January 1, and Nat Geo Wild will premiere a new show, "Leader of the Pack," on January 5. "Dog Whisperer" ended its run on September 15.

The new series, which was filmed in Spain, aims to increase pet rescue, rehabilitation and rehoming around the world. It will feature his training philosophy, a belief that every dog knows its place and follows rules set by the pack leader - in this case, a human such as an owner or a trainer.

His success hasn't been without critics. Bonnie Beaver, a board-certified veterinary behaviorist in Texas, said he mishandles animals and that he is losing credibility because "in some situations, he is actually making a diagnosis."

"He may not even recognize he is making a diagnosis," she said, adding that when he says a dog has separation anxiety or dominance problems, "he's putting a label on it and in reality that label is a diagnosis."

In California, that is legal, but in Texas it is not, she said, because "making a diagnosis and setting up a course of treatment is restricted to certain professionals."

Daniels dismissed the critics, saying that "few have ever spoken to him directly or taken the time to understand what he is all about - which is a man with a deep passion for helping animals and people."

That passion for animals - especially dogs - is evident. Millan said he's never met a dog he didn't like, and chose a canine as his lone companion for a hypothetical stranding on a deserted island.

He also defended his love for pit bulls, with a reputation for fighting and fierceness, saying: "It's not the breed, it's the human behind the dog." Rehabbing dogs is easy, he said, but training people is not.

"A dog would never see me as a Mexican or immigrant or think things people say about me. Dogs don't rationalize. They don't hold anything against a person. They don't see the outside of a human but the inside of a human," he said.

But there are some times when he prefers people over animals. He was tactful when he said he had both a human and a canine best friend. And he was quick to say that he preferred the Super Bowl over the "Puppy Bowl," the Animal Planet's pet-friendly TV show that features puppies romping on a room-sized football field. "I have a 'Puppy Bowl' every day," he explained.

Dog psychologist explains

I deal with dog psychology; trying to connect with the dog's mind and natural instincts to help correct unwanted behavior. I do not use words or commands. I use energy and touch.

To dogs, there are only two positions in a relationship: leader and follower. Dominant and submissive ... So its vital that you always have the calm, firm and assertive energy, and always be your pack leader by setting rules, boundaries and limitations.

I don't call what I do 'training' anymore. There are plenty of great trainers out there, who can teach your dog to 'sit,' 'stay,' 'come' and 'heel.' That's not what I do. I do heavy-duty rehab. I deal with dog psychology.

When I come to a client's house, the owner usually thinks the problem lies with the dog. I always have in the back of my mind that the issue is most likely with the owner. I often tell my clients, 'I rehabilitate dogs, I train people.'

In a dog's world, getting only affection upsets his natural balance. By teaching my clients how to 'speak' their dog's language, the language of the pack, I open up a whole new world for them. My goal in working with clients is to ensure that both the human and the dog end up healthier and happier.

The key to my method is what I call 'the power of the pack.'

I keep a pack of 30 to 40 dogs nobody else will take. Most of them I rescue from shelters or rescue organizations because they are considered 'unadoptable' or were abandoned by their owners for behavior reasons. My rescued dogs, once rehabilitated, become happy, productive pack members. Many eventually find loving, responsible adoptive families. During their time in my pack, these dogs that were once destined for death row regularly play host to and serve as role models for my client's problem dogs.

Training owners of 'bad' dogs

Cesar's methods of rehabilitating dogs not only saved lot of dogs from abandonment or lethal injection, but also helped their owners. He says he rehabilitates dogs but "trains" owners.

In many cases, owners who follow Cesar's way of applying calm, assertive energy in their lives, say they also find more personal confidence and happiness. Dog owners may even understand themselves better.

"The funny thing is you've changed me and my family and we do not even own a dog," wrote a 41-year-old woman. The mother of two said she had trouble disciplining her children until she saw "The Dog Whisperer." "Now I have trained myself to become a more assertive parent, using a more authority energy ... My children have become more disciplined and actually like responsibilities and chores."

Other cases

Rosemary, a pit bull mix, had been bred to fight other dogs in illegal pit fights. After she lost a big fight, her owners poured gasoline over her and set her on fire. A rescue organization saved her and she recovered from her burns, but she became dangerously human-aggressive and started biting. At the Dog Psychology Center, Millan said he gained her trust in two days. All she needed was safe place and solid leadership to regain her trust in people. Before, she had felt intimidated, so she'd make the first move and attack before a person could hurt her. Today Rosemary is an angel and lives with a family who cannot believe she would ever hurt anyone.

Scarlett, a French bulldog, was the new dog in a houseful of unruly dogs and other pets. A rabbit got out of its hutch and Scarlett attacked it and took out its eye. Millan worked with Scarlett at her owner's house and found the problem was not Scarlett, it was her owners. There was no discipline in the house, no rules, boundaries or limits. The animals ran loose. Millan gave the owners plenty of homework, but they didn't change. A few weeks later Scarlett bit the leg off a Chihuahua. The owners blamed Scarlett. Millan didn't think there was any hope for the owners or for Scarlett in that house, so he adopted her himself. Now Scarlet is sweet and calm and can go everywhere with Millan.