Girls take new names to feel wanted
MORE than 200 Indian girls whose names mean "unwanted" in Hindi have chosen new names for a fresh start in life.
A central Indian district held a renaming ceremony it hopes will give the girls new dignity and help fight widespread gender discrimination that gives India a skewed gender ratio, with far more boys than girls.
The 285 girls - wearing their best outfits, with barrettes, braids and bows in their hair - lined up to receive certificates with their new names along with bouquets from Satara district officials in Maharashtra state.
In shedding names like "Nakusa" or "Nakushi," which mean "unwanted" in Hindi, some girls chose to name themselves after Bollywood stars such as "Aishwarya" or Hindu goddesses such as "Savitri." Some just wanted traditional names with happier meanings, such as "Vai-shali" - "prosperous, beautiful and good."
A 15-year-old girl who was named Nakusa by a grandfather disappointed by her birth, said: "Now in school, my classmates and friends will be calling me this new name, and that makes me very happy." She chose the new name "Ashmita," which means "very tough" or "rock hard."
The plight of girls in India came to a focus after this year's census showed the nation's sex ratio had dropped over the past decade from 927 to 914 girls for every 1,000 boys under the age of six.
Maharashtra state's ratio is well below that, with just 883 girls to every 1,000 boys - down from 913 a decade ago. In the district of Satara, it is even lower, at 881.
Such ratios are the result of abortions of female fetuses, or just sheer neglect, leading to a higher death rate among girls.
The problem is so serious that hospitals are banned from revealing the gender of an unborn fetus in order to prevent sex-selective abortions, though evidence suggests the information gets out.
Part of the reason Indians favor sons is the enormous expense of marrying girls. Families often go into debt arranging marriages and paying for elaborate dowries. A boy, on the other hand, will one day bring home a bride and dowry. Hindu custom also dictates that only sons can light their parents' funeral pyres.
Over the years, and again now, efforts have been made to fight the discrimination.
"Nakusa is a very negative name as far as female discrimination is concerned," said Satara district health officer Bhagwan Pawar, who came up with the idea for the renaming ceremony.
Other incentives, announced by federal or state governments every few years, include free meals and free education to encourage people to take care of their girls, and even cash bonuses for families with girls who graduate from high school.
Activists say the name "unwanted," which is widely given to girls across India, gives them the feeling they are worthless and a burden.
A central Indian district held a renaming ceremony it hopes will give the girls new dignity and help fight widespread gender discrimination that gives India a skewed gender ratio, with far more boys than girls.
The 285 girls - wearing their best outfits, with barrettes, braids and bows in their hair - lined up to receive certificates with their new names along with bouquets from Satara district officials in Maharashtra state.
In shedding names like "Nakusa" or "Nakushi," which mean "unwanted" in Hindi, some girls chose to name themselves after Bollywood stars such as "Aishwarya" or Hindu goddesses such as "Savitri." Some just wanted traditional names with happier meanings, such as "Vai-shali" - "prosperous, beautiful and good."
A 15-year-old girl who was named Nakusa by a grandfather disappointed by her birth, said: "Now in school, my classmates and friends will be calling me this new name, and that makes me very happy." She chose the new name "Ashmita," which means "very tough" or "rock hard."
The plight of girls in India came to a focus after this year's census showed the nation's sex ratio had dropped over the past decade from 927 to 914 girls for every 1,000 boys under the age of six.
Maharashtra state's ratio is well below that, with just 883 girls to every 1,000 boys - down from 913 a decade ago. In the district of Satara, it is even lower, at 881.
Such ratios are the result of abortions of female fetuses, or just sheer neglect, leading to a higher death rate among girls.
The problem is so serious that hospitals are banned from revealing the gender of an unborn fetus in order to prevent sex-selective abortions, though evidence suggests the information gets out.
Part of the reason Indians favor sons is the enormous expense of marrying girls. Families often go into debt arranging marriages and paying for elaborate dowries. A boy, on the other hand, will one day bring home a bride and dowry. Hindu custom also dictates that only sons can light their parents' funeral pyres.
Over the years, and again now, efforts have been made to fight the discrimination.
"Nakusa is a very negative name as far as female discrimination is concerned," said Satara district health officer Bhagwan Pawar, who came up with the idea for the renaming ceremony.
Other incentives, announced by federal or state governments every few years, include free meals and free education to encourage people to take care of their girls, and even cash bonuses for families with girls who graduate from high school.
Activists say the name "unwanted," which is widely given to girls across India, gives them the feeling they are worthless and a burden.
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