Why your pets are happier than you
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I came home after another difficult day and barked something at my dogs I cannot repeat in the newspaper. Why? Because pets don鈥檛 have a clue how good they鈥檝e got it. All they do is sleep and wait for the next moment of hand-fed gratification. Meanwhile, I have rent to pay, a water leakage and deadlines. Why is life so hard? Turns out it鈥檚 not for a Miniature Schnauzer.
So, while I don鈥檛 like motivational speeches or taking my own advice, here are seven reasons your pets are happier than you are and what to do about it.
Master the art of now
Pets don鈥檛 chase their tail over what happened yesterday or stress about tomorrow. My dog Finn doesn鈥檛 replay awkward conversations or worry about the stock market. He just exists. This ability to stay present is something people forget. The current moment is the only one we have, but we often find ourselves lost in another time or place.
Pet approach: Set aside five minutes a day to focus on the now. Try box breathing 鈥 inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four, and repeat. Or simply sit in silence and notice the world around you.
The small stuff
Pets enjoy the little things, from a stick to a patch of grass. They don鈥檛 need a perfectly curated day or a shiny new toy to feel good. Meanwhile, we overlook small pleasures, hounding after the next big thing. Happiness doesn鈥檛 have to be complicated; it lingers in the smell of coffee, the laughter of friends or the clarity of autumn air.
Pet approach: Find your 鈥渟tick.鈥 Spot one small thing each day that brings you joy and take a moment to appreciate it. It could be the warmth of the sun or the quiet hum of the city.
Rest, recharge, repeat
We run on empty, sacrificing sleep, self-care and downtime for work, social obligations or digital distractions. Meanwhile, pets have a deep commitment to rest 鈥 whether it鈥檚 an afternoon nap or a grooming session. I feel guilty for taking time to relax, but we need it more than ever. Studies show that a lax in self-care leads to burnout, stress and a drop in overall well-being.
Pet approach: Rest is a form of investment. Schedule a non-negotiable time each week for sleep, relaxation or zoning out with the TV. Nourish your body and mind by making downtime a priority.
Unplug and reconnect
Dogs don鈥檛 doom-scroll. They鈥檙e fully immersed in real, tactile experiences. Humans, on the other hand, have become addicted to the digital world 鈥 checking e-mails, refreshing social media feeds and losing hours to the Internet. We鈥檙e constantly connected but lonelier than ever. Research shows excessive screen time increases feelings of isolation and depression.
Pet approach: Set tech-free hours 鈥 whether during meals or before bed 鈥 to reconnect with yourself and what鈥檚 around you. Try putting your phone in another room or use an app to manage screen time.
Love unconditionally
Pets naturally love without condition. There鈥檚 no judgment or agenda, just pure, unfiltered devotion. Human relationships often come with unspoken expectations, whether we know it or not. We value others because we want something in return: affection, attention or validation. But love isn鈥檛 about keeping score; it鈥檚 about staying present with no strings attached.
Pet approach: Challenge yourself to give something helpful with no anticipation of return. Send a text to check in on a friend, make a gesture or spend time selflessly with someone who needs it.
Celebrate flaws
Cats don鈥檛 care about cellulite or apologize for their quirks. Humans, on the other hand, are obsessed with getting everything right. We fret over mistakes and battle a culture that sells solutions to manufactured problems. But imperfection is a human condition 鈥 only in the cracks of our emotional armor will we find connection.
Pet approach: Next time you catch yourself overthinking a flaw, remember imperfections don鈥檛 define us. It鈥檚 how we embrace them that counts. Let go of the need to be perfect and celebrate what makes you, you.
Loosen the reins
Bodhi sleeps where he wants and barks at neighbors because he can. I envy him. This dog lives life on his terms, without the weight of social expectations or obligations. He鈥檚 not concerned with rules for the sake of discipline. Yes, laws are essential in society. They keep us safe, ensure fairness and help maintain order. But when did we start letting 鈥渟houlds鈥 and 鈥渕usts鈥 govern us?
Pet approach: Loosen the reins. Skip the gym, have a slice of pizza, and give yourself permission to relax. One day, you鈥檒l look back and realize how much energy you wasted on things that didn鈥檛 matter.
There you have it 鈥 live like a pet. I love humans, but animals might just have the answers to some of our issues. I鈥檓 not suggesting we sniff each other鈥檚 bottoms or pee on lamp posts, but a little more self-acceptance and a little less TikTok wouldn鈥檛 hurt. Life doesn鈥檛 need to be perfect; it just needs to be lived. So, get to it.
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